How To Confess To Your Wife You Cheated On Her

You’ve been a bad boy and now you have to come clean. Whether you were caught up in a moment of passion with stranger or carried on a long affair with a mistress behind her back, telling your wife you’ve cheated is no easy task. Since we know it is not an easy task, we’re going to let you in on just how to tell her you’ve cheated-and you may just come away with all your limbs and extremities intact. Be sure you want to tell her.

Occasionally, telling might do more harm than good to your relationship. If you’ve slipped in the fidelity department. But know that it was a huge mistake and are confident that you’ll never do it again, you may want to keep it to yourself. It all depends on how well you can live with guilt. If you think that it will eat at you until you’re forced to eventually reveal your transgression, get it over with now, you should either tell immediately or not at all. The middle ground in this situation is dangerous.

Figure out your reason for telling

Ideally, the reason you want to tell your partner is to be honest and open about your indiscretion. Telling her because the other woman has threatened to tell her first is not the most noble of reason, but it is valid. The truth should always come from you. If she hears it from someone else, it will be that much harder on her, especially if it’s coming the other woman.

If you want to tell her about your fidelity faux pas because you’re hoping it will hurt her, you either need serious therapy or a new relationship. If you’re hoping that hearing about your affair will make her so angry that she’ll break up with you, try being a man and breaking it off yourself. You obviously don’t want to be in the relationship and although you may think revealing an affair is an easy way to get out of it, it is a cowardly route to take.

Timing is everything

Time is of the essence when it comes to revealing an affair. The more time that passes between the event and your confession . For the best possible result, do not reveal your secret to her in public, while she’s stressed out about work or after she tells you about a fight she’s having with her best friend.

Once you know how to tell her you’ve cheated, you may be able to save the relationship.

Also, taking her out on a fabulous date, giving her a message or drawing a bubble bath to soften her up beforehand is not a very good idea . The bombshell you drop on her once she’s pampered and relaxed will ruin all the work you put into the entire evening. Save the queen-like treatment for after confession; you’ll need it.

Be prepared for the WORST

GOOD LUCK